Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who YOU are.
I know I am not perfect. I know I judge people, I know I judge people who judge me, which I know sounds dumb right? It's something I am working on, to not let things or people upset me. Get to me. I am doing so much better than I was last year but I still struggle with it.
I struggle with it because I consider myself a nice person. I am not perfect but I do honestly try to treat people the way I want to be treated. I have my faults. I have my insecurities but I do try to improve my outlook on life and remind myself that I cannot control how other people feel and treat me. I can only control the way I react to it. My goal is to not let it bother me, let it slide off my bad as if it never happens. Not get myself wrapped up into the drama of it.
I am trying
Some days are much harder than others.
What boils down the one thing I need to have my faith in God that what I am doing is the right thing. Not letting people hurt me or get to me.
I just need a reminder sometimes...........