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I am sorry! I have had a horrible week, my camera won't upload any pictures and I can't find my cable to do it manually...ugh....and then I got a infected tooth...oh.my.HECK. It is some of the worse pain! I am hating life....I got my AWESOME gift from my guilty pleasures...I Promise I will post it tomorrow....I am tired...it's been a uber LONG day, Evan has been attached to my hip pretty much all dang day long and refuses to take a nap longer than 20 minutes and I feel like poop to top it off....and Richard left around 6ish to go fishing until 5pm...yeah not the best day today...I am going to hopefully feel better tomorrow and I will post stuff's!

30 Letters Day 23 The Last Person You Kissed

I was having a bad morning this morning. Little things kept coming up and frustrating me beyond reason. After I FINALLY got on the freeway I realized I left my breakfast at home...grrrr I texted the awesome husband and he offered to stop by my work on the way to his work and bring it to me....awwwww so he's the last person I kissed!

Dear Richard,

Thank you so so SOOOO much for bringing me my oatmeal (you can see him holding it in the picture) I am sorry for being uber pissy on the phone with you this morning, I hate driving on 5600 in Roy more than life itself! (Anyone who's been on the road knows what a joy it is to drive on it) Thank you for being so nice and leaving a little early so you could get to work on time. You are a saint! I am so glad I married you!

Lover of both Oatmeal & You!

Mary

30 Letters Day 22 Someone You Want To Give A Second Chance To

I have been really struggling with this one, mainly because IF I have chosen to not have a person apart of my life there are solid reasons as to why they are not. I am a nice person and if you got to the list of do not answer when they call list it's not because I just chose not to, or don't feel like answering. It means you did something seriously rude or mean towards me or a family member or friend. I am a forgiving person but I draw the line somewhere. I just can't think of "someone" so I chose this instead.

Dear Gym,

I know you didn't do anything to piss me off, my body has decided not to like me at the current moment so I thought I would let you know I am going to give you a second chance, and continue where we left off, as long as your ok with it. I know I know, I left and I haven't been back for a few weeks, I am sorry but my stupid attacks keep happening and doctor said no more working out until we figure out what my issue is. I am willing to give you a second chance, are you willing to give me the same? I sure do hope so!

Chunky Monkey,

Mary

8 Random Questions

Aubrey tagged me and since I am stuck at work until 5 tonight I figured I would do this and have a little bit of fun....right?


Do you collect anything? What is it? If not, do you WISH you did?

I collect keychains, have been for several years it's fun I have a lot of different keychains from all over the world. I have a bear claw from Russia and a surf board from Hawaii. I love getting new ones! I have also been trying to collect money as well. Feel free to send me either one, I love the shiny ones the most, and lots of them!


What room in your house would you most like to remodel? Would your answer change if someone else was paying for it?

I want to re do the whole dang house! It needs updating so badly. It wouldn't really matter if someone else was paying for it other than I would put in nicer items. My goal is to re do the flooring in the kitchen, hallway & bedrooms. I would love to have our room re done. Get a bed that is bigger and carpet that isn't cotton candy pink. Not sure what carpet I would put in but anything's better than what it is now. I would also add in shelves to stack our pants and do a better job for the shirts to be hung up by. I need a house makeover!

What is your LEAST favorite chore? Do you hate it enough to get a maid to do it, or are you too anal for that?

Gag, I agree with Aubrey...LAUNDRY it's a bottomless pit of pure evil. Each time I do laundry it takes a part of my soul LOL I hate it, I would hire someone the moment I found the extra money to do so!

Have you ever broken a bone? What, and how?

I broke my right arm both bones all the way through but thankfully not through the skin. I got tripped and fell back and snapped them. I then broke my left hand at work, dropped a huge metal bowl on it. Both times SUCKED!


Music. Do you have a go to album that you play to get you motivated, or do you just blare the radio, and pray that something peppy comes on?

Pandora...I love that website! That or I plug in my ipod and just push random....both equally good for me! (currently listening to Breaking Benjamin on Pandora)

How do you keep track of your schedule? Old fashioned calendar? Set alerts on your phone? Fly by the seat of your pants, and pray you don't forget a Parent/Teacher conference?

I use my BlackBerry for everything! That way I don't forget it reminds me usually 1 hour before the said apt or if it's really important it will remind me the day before and then the day of. No way could I ever funtion by flying by the seat of my pants, my pants would be on fire if I tried to do that!

Cooking, baking, or neither?

I can do both, I can make items from scratch it just depends on how much time I have. If I was a stay at home mom I am sure I would be doing alot more Baking but since I work 3 jobs ontop of being a Mom I tend to do more of the quick baking!

Are you brand name specific, or are generics just as good? What is one product you would NEVER replace with a generic brand?

I used generic brand laundry soap and it was almost bleach to my shirts I had a pink shirt and after a few washes it went from pink to white with a hint of color. I don't get the most expensive kind but I love the smell of gain so that works for me! I don't mind getting generic items but certain items I perfer like name brand Soda unless it's orange or grape soda dr thunder just doesn't cut it for me. Or Nutri Grain bars, you can tell a difference. But canned veggies, I can't tell the difference. So it honestly just depends on what it is!

I am tagging...YOU! That's right...YOU!

30 Letters Day 21 Someone You Judged By Their First Impression

This one is hard, I am ususally pretty good at first impressions usually if I get a bad vibe from someone when I first meet them I am right.

Dear Z,

I did judge you on my first impression of you but sadly I was right. You treated your "friend" like total crap. You moved in and used us, you treated us rudly and used our stuff and left our place a huge mess and just assumed we would clean up after you, then you got fired from your job and didn't bother looking for a new job and continued to mooch off of us. You were rude and took advantage of your friend who was trying to help you out. You use people to get ahead in life, sadly you lost a friend because of it.

Didn't like you from the start,

Mary

30 Letters Day 20 The One That Broke Your Heart The Hardest

It's funny how when your are with someone and when you realize that the relationship is starting to end you think how much you are hurting or how badly you feel. My high school sweetheart of course was hard but that was because I have never really experienced heartache before, so I can't count that one honestly. The rest of ending of serious relationships didn't ended with me being either happy or mad but not heart broken, call me weird but that's how it usually went. So I think this letter fits pretty well.

Dear G,

I am heart broken not over the fact that our relationship ended because I ended it. I found out you did nothing but lie to me the whole entire time I was with you and I refused to be with someone who couldn't hold down a job and did nothing but lie. So that isn't the part that breaks my heart. The part that breaks my heart is the fact that we have a handsome, smart, silly sweet boy that you want nothing to do with. It breaks my heart that you refuse to make even one attempt to make any contact with him. He is such a great big brother and son. I love that boy to pieces and it breaks my heart knowing you honestly don't care. Oh you claim you care but I know the truth, you would rather go around telling everyone that all I do is yell at you and say your a bad father but I can't say your a bad father because that would require effort, none of which you have made. So I am thrilled that I met someone who does give a damn about Avery and fine don't be there when Avery needs his Dad, Richard has totally stepped up and has done a great job, but part of me still breaks knowing his real father doesn't care to even know him....that's sad...really really sad.

Cracked but not Broken,

Mary

30 Letters Day 19 Someone That Pesters Your Mind—Good Or Bad

I wasn't really sure as to who to write this to, then this person came to mind......funny how things like that work out

Dear Scott,

I understand that you pulled the work from home program because people were not doing their jobs but I don't think you realize how badly it hurt me and many other's who were doing their job and doing a good job at that working from home. I have run into so many problems since I have had to go back in the office, I don't think it's fair to punish everyone because of a few bad apples. Especially when you still have a work from home agent now. Every problem that you came up with us work from homes had an answer or a way to improve it. The supervisors didn't like it because it was harder to manage us, but honestly I didn't even see them try! W refused to be nice to any of us and would avoid doing his job, maybe you should look at him? Just saying. I just wish you would consider letting us go back home, I know I did my job and did my job well. It's caused to many problems and heartache now that I am back in the office, and on top of that I get to deal with stupid in office drama! blah!

Missing My Office,

Mary