Monday, January 9, 2012

To Find Out? Or To Wait..........







I have been going back and forth whether to find out the sex of this baby or not. My good friend Kelsey who works in Labor and Delivery where I will deliver thinks I shouldn't find out. She says it's so magical for everyone in the room. I agree I think it would be! And I think it would be an awesome surprise! But at the same time I want to know so badly, ALREADY! At 15 weeks! Richard already told me that he's going to find out even if I don't want to find out. He said he was going to have the doctor show me and I would just have to close my eyes! Yikes! I want to hold off and not find out but I want to find out at the same time!?! Ugh......Then my Birth Mother Nadine sent me a text message over the weekend with a really cool idea. Richard and I would find out the sex but do not tell anyone. What we would do is have a "Reveal Party" and then Reveal the sex and name of the baby. I thought that would be really fun.......but I also think waiting until the baby is born to find out the sex would be really fun too.....Argh! I am just so conflicted on what to do! I have my next apt on the 17th of this month so a week from Tuesday.......Decisions......Decisions!

5 comments:

Miss Angie said...

Good luck with whatever you decide!

Lisa said...

Who are you trying to fool? You know as well as I do that you won't be able to wait! LOL

Mary said...

Thanks Angie & You know me all to well Lisa!

Jill McQuade said...

I can't imagine waiting to find out. Also, if I'm not having the gender I'd hope to have, I'd like to get over the negative emotions before baby was born. Having the baby is a already a magical time.. might as well as spread the magic/love. and don't you dare find out and not tell the rest of us!!!!

Mary said...

Oh Jill...your going to HATE me! hahahaha

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